<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200605460828206906</id><updated>2011-10-27T16:21:30.999-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Things Worth Knowing</title><subtitle type='html'>The opinions and views of The Maven</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1200605460828206906/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>The_Maven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08277085878808685922</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ing_WI97nVc/Tpb4vYrJ5VI/AAAAAAAAAAY/scAUR5UYO9I/s220/profile%2Bpic.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200605460828206906.post-8659038512350415625</id><published>2011-10-26T09:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-10-26T09:05:57.460-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Who I Am &amp; Why I Do What I Do</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"There are two primary choices in life: To accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them." - Denis Waitley&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8ROioYV2avU/TqgXGjIQTiI/AAAAAAAAABE/dF4_UrkbHNQ/s1600/Me.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="163" ida="true" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8ROioYV2avU/TqgXGjIQTiI/AAAAAAAAABE/dF4_UrkbHNQ/s200/Me.jpg" width="200" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wow!&amp;nbsp; It’s&amp;nbsp;insane to think that&amp;nbsp;my lessons about time management and personal development have touched so many lives, and that you are here because you are genuinely interested in learning from the strategies and techniques that I live by.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rather than give the standard professional&amp;nbsp;bio,&amp;nbsp;I’m going to tell you the real story of where I came from and why I can’t help but to do what I do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;(&lt;a href="mailto:shelbyhandley@shelbyhandley.com"&gt;Email Me&lt;/a&gt; if you need a &lt;strong&gt;quick clean bio&lt;/strong&gt; for a publication)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="first"&gt;I never meant to teach people how to improve their lives,&amp;nbsp;I just wanted to figure out how things worked, not&amp;nbsp; just my life in general but &lt;strong&gt;EVERYTHING.&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp;I am a consumer of knowledge.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="first"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;I've always been a bit odd, even as a child. I had an insatiable appetite for learning how things worked.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;My favorite saying is "Why?".&amp;nbsp; In fact, when I&amp;nbsp;was in college and pledging&amp;nbsp;Sigma&amp;nbsp;Gamma Rho Sorority Inc., I caused our line a great deal of grief because&amp;nbsp;I needed to know why we did the things we did.&amp;nbsp; They called me the INQUISITOR!&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What seemed like rebellion was really just the need to know why?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;If I couldn't get a straight answer, I would take things into my own hands and figure it out (by any means necessary).&amp;nbsp; In short this means that I would break things so I could see how they were designed and then I would "&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;figure it out"&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now that I am older, I have added the words "&lt;strong&gt;Does&lt;/strong&gt;", "&lt;strong&gt;How&lt;/strong&gt;" and "&lt;strong&gt;Can&lt;/strong&gt;" to my vocabulary.&amp;nbsp; Here are some of the questions that constantly ring in my head about &lt;strong&gt;EVERYTHING&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Does it &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;really&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; work? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;How does it work? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Can&amp;nbsp;this information be helpful to others?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;After many trial and errors, I had a&amp;nbsp;revelation.&amp;nbsp; I realized that&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;EVERYTHING had a&amp;nbsp;PATTERN&lt;/strong&gt;!!!&amp;nbsp; After even more trial and errors, I had a &lt;u&gt;major&lt;/u&gt; revelation.&amp;nbsp; I realized that the &lt;strong&gt;PATTERNS apply to even REAL LIFE&lt;/strong&gt;!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once you know how things work and don't work, you can navigate your way to either success or failure.&amp;nbsp; The vehicles are Time, Effort and Energy.&amp;nbsp; It's your choice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over my lifetime I’ve learned so much about life, relationships, spirituality, business, and long term happiness.&amp;nbsp; I’ve made many mistakes&amp;nbsp;and I share those lessons with you so you don’t have to make the same mistakes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And through it all, I&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;REFUSE&lt;/u&gt; to&amp;nbsp;&lt;em&gt;"accept the conditions as they exist..."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;nbsp; and I&lt;strong&gt; &lt;u&gt;CHOOSE&lt;/u&gt; to &lt;em&gt;"accept the responsibility of changing them&lt;u&gt;.&lt;/u&gt;"&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;~The Maven&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;P.S.&amp;nbsp; If you are interested in subscribing to my FREE Personal Development Class and Newsletter,&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href="http://eepurl.com/gGCTL"&gt;Click Here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1200605460828206906-8659038512350415625?l=things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/feeds/8659038512350415625/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/2011/10/who-i-am-why-i-do-what-i-do.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1200605460828206906/posts/default/8659038512350415625'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1200605460828206906/posts/default/8659038512350415625'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/2011/10/who-i-am-why-i-do-what-i-do.html' title='Who I Am &amp; Why I Do What I Do'/><author><name>The_Maven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08277085878808685922</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ing_WI97nVc/Tpb4vYrJ5VI/AAAAAAAAAAY/scAUR5UYO9I/s220/profile%2Bpic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-8ROioYV2avU/TqgXGjIQTiI/AAAAAAAAABE/dF4_UrkbHNQ/s72-c/Me.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total><georss:featurename>Opelika, AL, USA</georss:featurename><georss:point>32.6454116 -85.37827950000002</georss:point><georss:box>32.571636100000006 -85.46343550000002 32.7191871 -85.29312350000002</georss:box></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1200605460828206906.post-1293699640580978427</id><published>2011-04-17T02:46:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-04-17T02:46:04.958-07:00</updated><title type='text'>4 Something In the Morning</title><content type='html'>It is 4 something in the morning and it is obvious that I cannot sleep.&amp;nbsp; So guess what I decided to do?&amp;nbsp; Yup! You guessed it.&amp;nbsp; I decided to create a blog that I am actually going to make a serious attempt to keep current.&amp;nbsp; Unlike the one that I started in November.&amp;nbsp; I will save that story for another day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Choosing a name for this blog was not easy.&amp;nbsp; Mainly because I discovered that I am not as creative as I thought.&amp;nbsp; I went through atleast 15 - 20 names before I decided that&amp;nbsp; I would just add a hyphen between each word of the name that I wanted th most.&amp;nbsp; Wow! I am a genius. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things-Worth-Knowing is birthed!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I decided on this name because I have been asked many times, "where do you get your knowledge from and why do you know so much?"&amp;nbsp; I thought about it and I really can't take credit for it.&amp;nbsp; It is all GOD.&amp;nbsp; Surrendering or not, He uses me to share information and match people up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I always wondered if there was a name for a person like.&amp;nbsp; He gave me the answer...It is Maven!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wikipedia describes it&amp;nbsp;as:&lt;br /&gt;A &lt;b&gt;maven&lt;/b&gt; (also &lt;i&gt;mavin&lt;/i&gt;) is a trusted &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/wiki/Expert"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #0645ad;"&gt;expert&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; in a particular field, who seeks to pass knowledge on to others. The word maven comes from the Hebrew, via &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/wiki/Yiddish_language" title="Yiddish language"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #0645ad;"&gt;Yiddish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, and means one who understands, based on an accumulation of knowledge.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The word comes to English through &lt;a class="mw-redirect" href="http://www.blogger.com/wiki/Yiddish" title="Yiddish"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #0645ad;"&gt;Yiddish&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, which in turn derives from the &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/wiki/Hebrew_language" title="Hebrew language"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #0645ad;"&gt;Hebrew&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;i&gt;mevin&lt;/i&gt; (מבֿין), meaning "one who understands," and relates to the word &lt;i&gt;binah&lt;/i&gt;, which denotes understanding or wisdom in general.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Isn't that great?&amp;nbsp; Things-Worth-Knowing is my great attempt to share with you all the things that I have been Blessed to know.&amp;nbsp; Everything I blog about are my own personal opinions/views (some professional) and I blame no one other than myself for it...lol&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm going to pause here and take this time to reflect and figure out what topics am I&amp;nbsp;going to blog about first.&amp;nbsp; Should it be "small business", "real estate", "motherhood?"&amp;nbsp; Ahh...I don't know.&amp;nbsp; Once I figure it out, I will back.&amp;nbsp; Until then, have a good night, good morning, good afternnon, and good evening depending on where in the world you are at this very moment.&amp;nbsp; God Bless.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;~The Maven&lt;/em&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1200605460828206906-1293699640580978427?l=things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/feeds/1293699640580978427/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/2011/04/4-something-in-morning.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1200605460828206906/posts/default/1293699640580978427'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1200605460828206906/posts/default/1293699640580978427'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://things-worth-knowing.blogspot.com/2011/04/4-something-in-morning.html' title='4 Something In the Morning'/><author><name>The_Maven</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08277085878808685922</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='26' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-ing_WI97nVc/Tpb4vYrJ5VI/AAAAAAAAAAY/scAUR5UYO9I/s220/profile%2Bpic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
